Many women struggle mentally and emotionally after having an abortion, but few talk about it out of fear of judgment or anxiety about how it will affect their relationships.
But if you have had an abortion, it is important to let yourself walk through the emotions you are wrestling with. It is important to process it with others who can help you see that you are not alone.
Is It Common to Have Mental Health Effects From Abortion?
Almost thirty years ago, the Journal of Social Issues dedicated an entire issue filled with contributions about the psychological effects of induced abortion. In conclusion of the issue, Editor Dr. Gregory Wilmoth said, “There is now virtually no disagreement among researchers that some women experience negative psychological reactions postabortion.”
The National Library of Medicine published research in 2018 that agreed, “both sides agree that (a) abortion is consistently associated with elevated rates of mental illness compared to women without a history of abortion; (b) the abortion experience directly contributes to mental health problems for at least some women.”
Some women are more predisposed to having mental health problems after an abortion due to pressure from people in their circle, pre-existing mental health issues like anxiety and depression, or moral ethics that oppose abortion.
What is a Root of Mental Health Effects After an Abortion?
Many women who get an abortion think they are just going to have the procedure and be done with their unwanted pregnancy forever. They feel like abortion will be the solution to their problem, and life will go back to how it was before.
The problem is, it won’t.
Abortion doesn’t un-do the pregnancy. You can’t go back. There will be lingering effects from this event both physically and emotionally– sometimes for the rest of your life.
The realization that the abortion didn’t really end their situation in the way they thought it would often creates mental and emotional instability for women.
Common Signs of Mental Stress After an Abortion include:
- Sexual Dysfunction
- Self-harming behaviors like eating disorders or cutting. You may be punishing yourself subconsciously as a result of unprocessed guilt or shame
- Knots in your stomach from lingering guilt you feel for violating your moral code
- Nightmares about the abortion and what you experienced
- Difficulty sleeping
- Depression that leads to outbursts of crying, the inability to enjoy anything, and even suicidal thoughts
- Apathy and numbness toward everything
- Preoccupation with becoming pregnant again
- Difficulty bonding with your other children
- Feeling uncomfortable around babies and pregnant women
What Can You Do?
If you have experienced an abortion, you need a healthy and safe place to process it. You are not the only woman to experience mental health effects after an abortion, and you may find healing in talking it out with someone who understands what you are going through.
At SouthWest Options for Women, we would love to be your listening ear. We have helped many women find hope and healing after an abortion, and we are here for you too.
Please do not choose to walk this journey alone. Schedule a free consultation with us today!